South Africa is a pretty funny place. As I’m writing this I’m
sitting in a sushi restaurant listening to cheesy popular country music
and eating an endless sushi buffet for less than 10 US dollars. We’re at
the Eikested Mall in Stellenbosch, which most days feels like we’ve
found a little slice of America even though we’re 8,000 miles away. With
some of the stuff that we see and experience in our daily lives in
Kayamandi, it’s definitely nice to have the option to spend the
afternoon in our weird sushi restaurants and in and out of the stores in
the mall.
The hardest part about spending time in Stellenbosch is most
definitely the drastic difference from life here compared to the lives
people lead not a 5 minute drive away in Kayamandi. It often feels like
the townships are just forgotten, run down places that locals try their
hardest to avoid so as to not have to face the reality of the way people
live just minutes away. Learning about the people within Kayamandi and
making direct relationships with them would completely alter anyone’s
view about life in Kayamandi, but many people are to scared to even
drive through Kayamandi to get that far. You can just feel the
atmosphere change as we make the walk from Kayamandi to Stellenbosch. If
we decide to take the minibus, we get funny looks from the people on
the bus when we get on and when people on the street notice us on the
minibus they get a little confused too, like ‘why would these girls want
to be in Kayamandi and riding the minibus’ kind of looks.
Seeing the huge divide has really opened my eyes to the way of life
in Kayamandi and in Stellenbosch and has made me much more sensitive to
similar issues in the US as well. Today, we had a meeting with Songo and
the Stellenbosch Municipality about Songo’s plans for a pool in
Kayamandi, which gave us super great insight into the workings of the
government and the effects it has on Kayamandi. The man we spoke with
addressed how important it was going to be for us to have the full
support of the people of Kayamandi, because with so many people in need
of such basic things like housing, a pool may not be first on people’s
priority lists. This really hit me hard, because as important as it is
for people to learn how to swim, in focusing on this project I often
failed to take into account the very basic needs of so many of the
people in Kayamandi.
Still, the pool is going to be a priority because
it is such a reachable goal and is so important to prevent drownings in
local dams because kids don’t know how to swim. On top of that, it can
provide incredible opportunities for children to travel or even have an
education paid for because of their athletic ability. Honestly, I think
this meeting struck me so much because if this were to be at home, the
building of a pool would not be an issue because if the funding was
available, the pool would be made because there are not such important
needs that aren’t being met, liek the issues of housing for the people
of Kayamandi.
Not only does the divide between such close places hit me in my
travels to and from Stellenbosch and meetings like the one today, but
also when we arrive home and the girls we play with in the afternoons
are asking where we’ve been. To tell them we just went on a shopping
spree feels so unfair, because they aren’t able to do that. Adjusting to
life in Kayamandi is not an easy task and it always strikes me in the
smallest moments, like when the girls come running up and ask to see
what we bought, which always leaves us feeling uncomfortable.
I think these transitions will become easier as I am here longer, but
they have definitely forced me to face racial and social issues in
South Africa and have even shed new light on these issues in my own
community. Being in Kayamandi has definitely forced me to grow up a lot
in the short time we’ve been here and I have a feeling that growth will
only continue for the rest of my time here.
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