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14 March 2016

Livin’ la vida Tico #HogsAbroad

After spending 6 hours outside the airport in the sweaty heat of San Jose we were finally making our way to our home destination of Puntarenas, a small port city on the western coast of Costa Rica. From the pictures on the application site we were heading to a beautiful tropical beach of white sands, gnarly swells, and coconut trees lining the shores. All 30 of us on the bus could hardly contain ourselves with excitement to meet the host families we would be living with for the next four months.

Gory posing for the ladies with me and cousin Rob.

Stepping out of the bus into a sea of cheering families I hear “Tony Eller! Tony Eller! Donde estas!”, but from the steps couldn’t see where it was coming from. Sifting through all the greetings and besos I found my way to a little man about a foot shorter than me jumping up and down with a little sheet of paper reading Tony.

Standing in front of him with bags draped over my shoulders, I extended my hand to greet him. Instead of hearing the “hola, me llamo es” (hello, my name is) like I expected, I was greeted with the infectious humor of Gory I would soon come to know “Aye madre de dios! no tengo suficiente comida para ti!” (Mother of God, I don’t have enough food to feed you!). 

With the little Spanish I had learned over the years I knew what those words meant and we both burst out laughing. This was a defining moment of my experience perfectly foreshadowing the next four months of living with a Costa Rican, or Tico as Latin America calls them, family filled with the utmost kindness, adventure, and laughter.

Like most human beings I was a little apprehensive before coming down knowing I would be immersed in a foreign country, language, and culture but living with a host family made all the difference. For the next four months I ate, slept, studied, celebrated and did everything with my Ticos. They completely immersed me in their life without batting an eye bringing me to church with them, throwing me on the soccer pitch, and making me an uncle to precious Zoe barely a month after arriving. I learned a ton in my five classes at school, went on crazy adventures with my fellow classmates on the weekends, and salsa-ed the night away but I always found myself excited to be heading home to hang out with my family. 

An average day started off waking up to the aroma of fresh Costa Rican coffee for breakfast, biking my way to school on the beach for the morning, running home for lunch and coffee in the afternoon, heading back to school for soccer with the locals, then ending the night spending quality time with the family in lawn chairs on the street.  I improved my Spanish the most through daily conversations with my host father, arguing my way through soccer matches, and tutoring the neighborhood kids in English.


Maria, one of my students, drawing out the ingredients to PB&J’s for the class.
One of my proudest moments because that is my favorite food.
By participating in a language immersion program I was given an invaluable opportunity to practice my Spanish until my little hearts content. My family thought it was the funniest thing when 9:30 pm rolled around because my mind stopped processing Spanish and I normally passed out. It was great.


The whole family, including baby Zoe, at our last fiesta together.
To this day I keep up with my family through WhatsApp, Skype, and Facebook (in which they comment on every photo of mine) and cannot wait to go back down and visit them. So if you are going abroad and deciding on homestay or on your own…do the homestay if you want to get the most out of your experience. You won’t regret it!
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By: Anthony Eller, Peer Advisor; Costa Rica and Panama Study Abroad Alum

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