It can be very intimidating to speak to native speakers in their own country. You might feel too much like an unwelcomed outsider and a nuisance to those trying to go about their daily lives. Don’t worry. Would you feel that way if the roles were reversed? Well, maybe I shouldn’t have asked that… Just keep the conversation short and simple until you are more confident — for the other person’s sake as well as your own. You’ll have more good experiences than bad. Think of this: you won’t be the first exchange student or tourist in the area. Unless your program is brand new, the locals will be expecting you. Take advantage of that.
My biggest problem while in France was my biggest problem here in the States, poor time management. I encourage you with all of my heart to try to be early for everything, especially if you have never done it before. You never know when you will turn down the wrong street, take the wrong bus or train, or stand in the wrong line to check in for your flight. (Yes, I did all of that.) It won’t hurt you to have to wait if you arrive earlier than the second things start. You could even talk to other people who have no choice but to wait there with you. It’s much easier than trying to stop people who are leaving to do other things after the event is over. Plus, it could save you the price of flight change.
Good luck to whomever you are, going wherever you are going!
Ezra Mable
